Posted on: 25, Oct 2019
When you meet your match for the very first time, it feels like every piece of the puzzle has finally fallen into place. It’s as if that missing part of you is filled up and whatever’s missing in your life has been gained – especially when you’ve made love for the very first time.
I don’t think it’s an exaggeration when I say that when you make love with that one person who has your whole heart, you can feel yourself resigning to all your emotions – the sweet, the passionate, the overwhelmed, and the grateful. This whole mix of emotions bubble up inside you, telling you that you’re exactly where you need to be. You are with the love of your life and everything else doesn’t matter anymore.
I tell you, when you meet this person in your life, don’t let her go. She is definitely one in a million. It’s hard to find the same kind of feeling again so be a man and tie the knot. But then again, maybe you already did. And maybe that’s why you’re here too.
Finding a way to salvage your dying romance.
Can True Love Fade?
True love is eternal but it’s up to you if you believe in it or not. True love cannot be explained by words alone; it transcends the mind, body, and soul. It’s something that’s hard to give shape too. So if you think that you’re losing the spark you and your partner once had, don’t just assume that maybe you’ve made the wrong call – maybe it wasn’t true love after all.
You see, love is always a choice. And when you decide to commit yourself to it, that’s when it becomes true. What I’m trying to say is that true love isn’t decided by fate, it’s decided by you. When you choose to stand by that person and that person alone, you will continue to come up with reasons to stay. It doesn’t matter what the world thinks; what matters is what you think.
So when you feel like something is fading, you can be sure that it isn’t love. It’s passion. Feeling passionate about each other is a fundamental aspect of love according to Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love. However, it’s not everything that there is to it. There’s also intimacy and commitment. So when you feel like it’s fading, more often than not it’s because the passion is starting to die down. It doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re falling out of love. You’re simply not satiating your appetite for love making the right way.
However, many people don’t seem to get this. They think that just because something feels “fading,” there is no hope to save the relationship. They start searching for that missing feeling elsewhere and this leads to unfaithfulness and infidelity. This is the common cause of ruined relationships (read more). Maybe, you’re in the brink of ruining yours as well.
But let me tell you something: Don’t be stupid.
Passion dies all the time. It happens naturally with familiarity. So even if you go searching for someone else, the same thing will happen – over and over again. And in the end, you’ll find yourself more alone than ever. What did I say? In order for love to be true, you have to make it so. But just because passion dies doesn’t mean it cannot be revived again. It can very much revived you know. All you got to do is be creative.
Sexual activity is an innate need for humans. Some say it comes with our need to procreate; others say that it is natural to feel the need to become one with your partner out of overwhelming affection. I think both are correct. But what is more important is that it’s hard to satiate sexual desires. You do one thing and you end up wanting to do another. When something becomes a routine, it suddenly feels boring. We humans can be real slaves to our libido.
So, I am going to suggest a really fun idea – something you’ve probably never tried before:
Passion can’t die down when it is teased intermittently. This is the kind of spice you and your partner need in your life. In order to keep things interesting, you have to involve interesting things into the relationship as well. You’ve probably tried role-playing before or adult toys, maybe this is a fresh idea that you can consider on your next date night. If you need more information, you can check out furniture for adults here.
Like I said, breaking up or cheating on your partner is not the solution you need. Don’t be so unoriginal. You’re not falling out of love; you’re falling out of passion. Tickle the right foot and I assure you that your relationship will be back on track.
So, what do you say? Care to give it a try?